The Secret of the Daughters of Midian. Parashat Matot

What the Zohar Saw That Everyone Else Missed.

The Battle Beneath the Battle. A hidden teaching buried in one of the Torah’s most enigmatic stories.

Parashat Matot is crowded with material: vows and oaths, a national war, tribal negotiations, the drawing of Israel’s borders. Yet the Zohar is surprisingly selective. It lingers over almost none of it. Instead, it pauses over a single image: the daughters of Midian. Stranger still, the following parashah, Masaei, receives no Zohar at all.

Why would the Zohar pass over an entire landscape of law, history, and politics only to dwell on this one episode?

That narrowness is itself a clue.

The Zohar rarely follows the events themselves. It follows the hidden forces that set them in motion. When it walks past vows, borders, and tribal politics without comment and settles on a single verse, it is quietly telling us that this is where the real drama begins. The choice itself is already an interpretation. Here – and nowhere else – the Zohar locates the mystical heart of the parashah.

Which raises an even deeper question: What did the Zohar see in the daughters of Midian that made everything else fade into the background?

The answer, I believe, begins with a single word: Matot.

Parashat Matot. The Secret of the Daughters of Midian. Michal Bar-Or Karro

Reading the Name “Matot”

The word Matot draws on three (3) Hebrew roots that sound alike, but point in different directions, and the parashah’s name sits at the intersection of them all.

One root - M.V.T (מוט) – means collapse. The sense of something giving way, a structure losing its footing. Another root - M.T.H (מטה) - gives us “staff”. A dried, hardened branch repurposed as a symbol of authority and leadership. Of walking a distance. Think of Moshe’s staff, or Aharon’s. A third - N.T.H (נטה) - The inclinations of the heart. The will that bends right or left. The tilt of a will toward one thing or direction rather than another.

Put the three together and you don’t get three unrelated ideas. You get one force looked at from three angles: something that can bring a structure down, something that can be shaped into an instrument of authority, and something that quietly decides which way anything ends up leaning in the first place. Taken together, these are not three unrelated ideas but three expressions of a single phenomenon - not a coincidence of Hebrew phonetics, but a shared spiritual pattern.

Now one may ask, what does all this have to do with the daughters of Midian? Well… It is here that the secret quietly folds itself into the divine picture.

A Hazard, or a Capacity?

Seen through the lens of Matot, the daughters of Midian begin to look very different.

Look closely at the decision Moshe makes after the battle, because it’s easy to read past it. He does not spare life indiscriminately. One group alone is preserved: the young women who had not "known a man" - drawn out of the very population that had just brought the nation to the edge of ruin. There is something deeply paradoxical about this mercy. It reaches for exactly the place the danger came from and asks that something there be kept alive. The Midian episode is the moment holiness reaches into the deepest, most compromised layer of impurity (what the tradition calls a kelipah, a shell that conceals holiness within impurity) and pulls something living out of it.

The obvious reading casts the daughters of Midian as a hazard. A seduction that nearly brought down the Israelite camp - a warning about desire. That reading is certainly available. But it also flattens what the Kabbalistic sources are trying to uncover, which is more interesting and less moralizing. Underneath the surface story, the mystics point to something else entirely. For them, the feminine isn’t dangerous because it’s prone to going off course. It is the capacity to set a course, full stop.

Femininity, in the symbolic world of Kabbalah, is not “inclined” by accident or flaw, it is itself the power of inclination. This isn’t a secondary trait bolted onto something else. It’s the constitutive essence. To see why this matters, we need to step for a moment into the symbolic world of Kabbalah.

One Fire, Two Heights

In Kabbalah, the divine is described as flowing into the world through a set of channels called sefirot - Malchut and Binah are two of them. Marked in the tradition as feminine, they anchor the entire structure.

Malchut is consistently described in the tradition as the sefirah whose function is direction. She is the power that takes an undifferentiated force and points it somewhere. That’s not a flaw attached onto femininity. It’s the job description. Binah holds the same role at a different altitude, in a different climate.

Kabbalistic literature draws a line between Binah and Malchut that’s easy to misread as a hierarchy of intensity - Binah as the “real,” untouchable mercy, Malchut as some diminished, watered-down version that has to get its hands dirty and end up doing the dirty work, becoming the force of judgment (כוח הדין). But that is a simplification of this grand structure of rolls. Binah is not entirely the mercy that never has to enter a fight, it’s the source, upstream of consequence. Malchut is, in a sense, Binah's outstretched hand—a force stationed at the front line. Which means it has to be able to do things Binah never has to do, but wants to, or aiming for.

They are a force within a force. Not two different or separate frontiers. One draws its strength from the other. A victory for one is a victory for both. The war against the forces of impurity belongs to both of them together. This is exactly where the daughters of Midian enter the picture. And this is exactly where the Zohar chooses to stop - consciously, completely, with no ambiguity about it - setting aside everything else this parashah contains, and everything the next one contains, to dwell instead on this single thing. The feminine power itself.

It’s probably not an accident that the tradition’s most celebrated warriors – Yael, Esther, Judith – are women. They’re not exceptions to a rule about feminine gentleness. They are the visible, active edge of a force that, further back in the system, stays quiet and undivided. And yet each of them shaped reality to her will under the most complicated, difficult, and seemingly impossible circumstances the nation faced. Each in her own moment, all for the same cause.

One Weapon, Used Both Ways

Here’s the symmetry worth sitting wit: the daughters of Midian and, in a very different register, figures like Yael or Esther are not opposites. They’re using the identical capacity – the pull toward attraction, the ability to draw someone toward you and set the terms of the encounter – in opposite directions. Yael brings a fleeing general into her tent. Esther walks unsummoned into a throne room. Neither wins by force in the conventional sense, both win by controlling where the other side’s attention and desire go. That’s the same tool the daughters of Midian used, aimed the other way.

So this was never a story about a good, pure femininity set against a corrupting, dangerous one. It’s one power, capable of being taken and redirected - just as Malchut and Binah are one power at two heights, set as mercy entering the world through judgment. When the Shechinah, the felt, dwelling presence of the divine herself goes to war, she doesn’t reach for a different method than the kelipah does. She takes the method back.

The Three Roots, Revisited

Only now do the three roots of Matot begin to reveal themselves - not as wordplay, but as the hidden grammar of the spiritual drama unfolding beneath the surface. This may well be why the Zohar devotes its attention to this scene.

M.V.T (מ.ו.ט) - collapse.

The daughters of Midian were, quite literally, a point of collapse. The mechanism by which the nation nearly gave way from within, not by siege or sword but by desire finding an opening. This is the danger the root names honestly. And that wasn’t an abstract possibility but a real, structural failure that had already begun before Pinchas and the war stopped it. The whole episode only makes sense if the threat was as real as the eventual repair.

M.T.H (מ.ט.ה) - the staff.

Femininity, on this reading, is the staff. The thing that directs hearts, that stands as an instrument of authority rather than merely submitting to one. Malchut and Binah are, in a sense, the beating heart of the whole kabbalistic system - not decoration on top of the male – coded sefirot, but the strategic core at the centre of it. The Shechinah is a warrior force, one that accompanies Israel constantly, in love and in zealous protection alike. A staff isn’t just something you lean on. It’s something you carry into battle and plant in the ground to mark where you stand.

N.T.H (נ.ט.ה) - the incline.

This is the power to bend hearts, to set the direction of the road itself. The daughters of Midian demonstrated one direction that power could take. But there was always another direction available. Moshe, in his wisdom and with G-d’s help, had to choose the right one - had to extract holiness from within the very impurity that had nearly undone the camp. That’s what the choice of direction ultimately means here. the same inclination that can be bent toward impurity can always, in principle, be turned back into a force for holiness.

And if we take all three and compress them into one shot of insight. This is presumably why the Zohar gives this scene all its attention.

The secret of the daughters of Midian isn’t a warning tucked into a war story. It’s the one place in the parashah where the mechanism behind everything else - the vows, the borders, the whole frameworkof a nation learning to stand on its own - shows itself without cover. Vows are, at bottom, about directing the will and then holding that direction - the same force, domesticated into obligation. The division of the land is about where each tribe’s boundary sits - again, a question of direction, just frozen into geography. In the Midian story, the same force appears live, unmediated, in the act of being contested. That’s the one moment the Zohar wants to stand inside.

The battle was never fought on the battlefield. It was fought in the direction of the heart.

The same power that can bring a people to collapse can become the staff that carries redemption forward. This is not merely the story of the daughters of Midian. It is the story of every force that waits to be reclaimed from the kelipah and returned to holiness.

Collapse. Staff. Inclination.

Three roots. One movement.

Every force capable of bringing a world down carries within it the possibility of lifting it again. The question is never whether the power exists, but who holds it, and toward what it is inclined. Perhaps that is the deepest secret hidden in the daughters of Midian: not the danger of the feminine, but the mystery of a power that can descend into the deepest darkness and still become the path by which holiness returns.

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